A few years ago (wow, it's been that long...), I posted the following entry you'll find below. A lovely person said something today that reminded me of it, and I am just as curious now as I was then...==================
My mind's been wandering in interesting places lately....
You all know I can be a bit transparent and obvious - but some of the most precious memories that give me the warm fuzzies and tingles in fun places really had very little to do with THE ACT.
It was an action, a gesture from the heart, a situation where I looked at the person and thought "She may not have meant it this way. It was a show of her caring for me, and I want her right NOW!"
For me, it was someone who I was kinda seeing coming over to help me pack to move. It wasn't a token appearance kinda thing - she stayed, got dirty and sweaty with the rest of us. Her actions and where they came from in her heart made it very difficult not to kick everyone out and play between the dust and boxes.... *sigh*
There has also been a time or two, where something I did had a complete unintentional, but 'pleasant' result....I call it the "I was minding my own business for a change" moment.
Then there are things I wish a woman would do - something not particularly sexual, but touches me in that way. Again using myself as an example, I once in a movie a woman with much care shaving a man with a straight razor. That hits me at a level I can't really explain, but I know what the next scene looks like in my head. :)
Which begs the question...
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